Is he playing games with me?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

We've been on a break. He has panic attacks and i messaged himasking how he was and he replied back. That nigth he texted me and we texted back and foruth for a while. He kept mentioning a movie so i said if he ever wanted to see it with me to let me know. Then he said okay maybe tomorrow depending on the snow. It snowed- i txted him and he said he doesnt think he can make it. So i said if he wants to during the week he said idk maybe im busy with soccer all week i don't have free time during the week ( he coaches 3 soccer teams) So idk I'm getting mixed messages here. I'm on a rollercoaster he gets my hopes up and then nothing. I've also noticed when i sign online he goes to away after a few mins. am i being paranoid? Hes really nice so idk if hes trying to not be mean and say no. We talk about once a month recently its been a little more but i don't know how much longer of this break I can take i've never been so overly emotional. Why does he keep talking to me and doing this?

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1. Thats a tough one. Honestly, i would break it off before you end up getting hurt.
2. I think he is afraid of commitment and is possibly scared. he is definately into you though. He would have lost contact with you if he didn't care. Don't worry. Give it a little longer. If he keeps "avoiding" you, talk to him about it. Maybe he just is oblivious to the situation.
3. Cause he is a guy. Call him up and ask him how does he feel. why did you guys go on a break to begin with. Since you are on a break go out and date other people. Do not just wait around for him. Obviously he is confused and no one can tell you what he is really thinking except for himself. Talk to him, see where he is with this whole relationship thing and no matter what keep in mind that you will be happy again no matter what happens between you two.
4. Move on...once a month is terrible and it isnt any form of a relationship for you to be worried this much. Be friends and if it turns into more then it does...Good luck.
5. Of course we always want to see the best situation, it did snow, so yall couldnt go to the movie; he did say it would depend on the snow. ok then if he really does coach 3 soccer teams he must be real busy. you jus have to decide if he is going to be too busy for you. but remember dont demand so much of his time. if his life is hectic as it is you dont want to bombard him and control his life. give him time and space, sadly(no girl wants to hear this) but kinda let him make the first move. that way you can see if he is interested or not. if he doesnt really press into you, or like call or text then i would assume he isnt really that interested or at least thinks of you as a friend but nothing more. if he calls and texts you first and all this junk then he prolly likes you but doesnt know it yet. just give it time, and dont rush it hope i helped even jus a little