Should i call her?

This is the problem. I couldnt call her on monday because i woke up late and then i had to go work, on tuesday, i woke up to do chours in my house and then i had to work, when i got back home, i went to play soccer around 8 because i had to go training for this soccer game i had on saturday, so on wendsday when i had my free day, i called her and she got mad because i didnt call her in two days, and said that i had time to play soccer but not to call her, i think that she thinks that soccer is more important for me than her, which is not true, for me, my girlfriend is one of the most important things in my life, I was trying to make things better but it didnt work,then we started to talk a bit and said that she was going to call me later but she didnt,i called thursday but she wasent home all day,i call her on friday after i got from work and she wasent home and i told her mom to tell her that i called her, so im waiting her to call me since friday and today is sunday, what should i do

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  1. Go for it bro.
  2. yessssssss
  3. go play soccer...
  4. Yeah You should work things out.
  5. keep calling her
  6. Call her and end the drama
  7. call her dude. ask her why she did not call you for three days man.
  8. Yeah, try calling her.
  9. call her tomorrow.
  10. Don't call, you'll disturb us and she is awesome!
  11. Call her and if you can text message her every now and then to let her know that you are thinking about her. She will appreciate it being that you have such a busy schedule.
  12. she is waiting for u to make the attempt call her
  13. Don't give up, but don't keep calling her. Think of a more subtle and original idea of getting through to her........yer i know advice isn't always strait forward :D
  14. Send her flowers with an note of apology. Up to Wednesday, your busy life makes it clear that all those things are much more important than a girlfriend. The problem here is that you have an ideology that a girlfriend is the most important thing to you, but your actions speak otherwise. Take a good hard look at yourself before you break her heart. DO YOU HAVE TIME FOR HER? If the answer is no, then just leave her alone.
  15. yeah...nothing bad in tryin
  16. Just tell her that you are really sorry, and tell her how she is the most important thing in your life, but you need to do all the pther stuff, maybe you can call her in between soccor when you have a break, and at your break from work to let her know what is going on, and when you are cleaning the house you can talk to her while you do something easy.
  17. Stop calling her, it sounds like she is giving what she got, so to speak, but it's turned into a game with your feelings now, so don't play. If she knows your schedule and your life and you, she knows how hard it sometimes is to get a free minute for anything, it even happens to us old married people sometimes, just wait her out and if she doesn't call soon, find another girlfriend who is more understanding of your situation, you sound like a great guy, playing sports and helping with chores at home, lots of girls appreciate that you know. Good Luck
  18. dont call her- the key is to use absence to increase her interest in you. do not call her until she calls you and then pretend like you cant talk right then. make her believe she inst that important at times, believe me she'll try and work so she does become number 1. but also you cant be a jerk all the time - when you choose to talk to her make her feel special but only if you feel she deserves it, if she doesnt then turn on the cold water again.
  19. She is just giving you the run around b/c she didn't like it when you didn't call so she is doing the same to you. Call her one more time and leave a message. Then wait for her to call b/c you have already attempted and trust me, she knows that. If you really care about her, make sure you call her, even if it is only for 1 minute b/c you have to go somewhere. girls can get worried when they don;t hear from you. Communication is very important to a girl. She wants to be more important to you then soccer and you made her feel the opposite. get it? Good Luck!!
  20. Let her know how you feel. The worst thing you could possibly do is stop talking to her completely. this leaves her only guessing at what is wrong and will completely exacerbate the situation ten fold. The best way to let her know is face to face. If you don't let her know she might just slip through your fingers. Talk to her calmly and don't freak out about the whole situation. The best way to go into any test in life is with a clear and calm attitude and complete confidence in yourself.
  21. well if you really like this girl, then write her a beautiful poem get a present for her too. That will lighten her up, then she will listen. Tell her the truth. If she gets mad, HER LOSS!!! ** Appreciation is the key to a girls LUV, trust me!!
  22. hmm i would try calling her one more time. If she doesn't call back tell her you got obligations too like she does. Soccer is your hobby and you enjoy it and your sorry that you didn't have time for her but you can't be everywhere at one time and that you both should have time for things you enjoy.
  23. If you want you can call her but be prepared to be rejected at which point I wouldn't bother anymore. You blew it. By my calculation you waited 6 days meaning at least 3 days too late. She has a point you found time for the things you wanted. You couldn't take 5 minutes to call her from work, on the way to work or practice or at some point in between if only to say "Hi, I didn't forget you?". Translation: "You don't have time for her." If that were any of the women I know they wouldn't give you the time of day now. I had a girlfreind like that. I dumped her faster than you could say her name..
  24. Let her come to you. Maybe she feels like she's punishing you for not calling her. Some girls like to play games like that. She needs to understand that you were busy and not trying to ignore her. And if you love soccer then she should support you in that and understand. If she can't then forget about it. Just stop calling cause I'm sure she knows that you've called so it's her turn.
  25. Dump her!!! She is trying to control you. She is not honest and very self centered. She is punishing you for not calling her every day. iF YOU LIKE TO BE CONTROLLED AND PUNISHED, i'M SURE SHE HAS A LOT MORE OF THAT STORED UP FOR YOU. sHE CAN'T SEE THE SITUATION FROM YOUR VIEWPOINT AND DOES NOT RESPECT YOUR REASONS FOR NOT CALLING HER. Women like that are very destructive. They work full time trying to change you and when they succeed, they don't respect you because you let them do it to you. Don't call her back. She will call you and try to get you back, not because she wants you but because she wants to be the one to dump you. Run the other way as fast as you can. this girl is a controlling b*tch!!!!.
  26. dont call her. shes playing a game to show you what mit feels like. i bet she was home when you called. at leasy i was when i did tthatt to my ex. just wait.
  27. Once relation created should be maintained and be respected . you avoided for some time and as apart of regret you must call her and maintain the relation much better than earlier.
  28. HEY DON'T GIVE UP TELL HER YOUR SORRY AND KEEP TRYING TO CALL HER AND IF YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT HER GO OVER TO HER HOUSE AND BRING HER CANDY AND FLOWERS
  29. DONT ASK this question to anyone friend.... LISTEN to wat ur heart says..... u know that u wanna call her.....then wats the issue dude......go for it..... there r some decisions only HEART can take......for everything else we have brain.... gr8, i can see u dialing her number.....coool......all the best for ur relation.....take care....
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